Do you know how to win your ex girlfriend back? Let me tell you a story about a couple named Tom and Sheri.
There was a party one night thrown by one of Tom’s friends. Sheri was busy, so Tom went to the party alone. He says he doesn’t know what he was thinking, and he knows that it was stupid, but he started to make out with one of Sheri’s friends there. Sheri, of course, heard about it and had a dramatic confrontation with Tom.
“I never want to see you again,” she said. “I am so out of here.”
Tom is devastated. He knows he was wrong, he knows he shouldn’t have done it, but what’s done is done. How can he win his ex girlfriend back?
The first thing Tom needs to do is sincerely apologize. This is not just a quietly mumbled “I’m sorry” either. He needs to realize what he did wrong, figure out why he did it, decide whether he will ever do it again, and most importantly, communicate all of this honestly to Sheri.
Once he has done that, Tom should stop. The ball is now in Sheri’s court.
Tom shouldn’t call Sheri. He shouldn’t email, text, or comment on her wall. He shouldn’t send flowers or candy. What he needs to do now is give Sheri a bit of time and space. And, he should use this time himself to realy determine what he wants in the future.
On the other hand, since he and Sheri have many of the same friends and go to school together, he shouldn’t avoid her either. If he sees her, he should politely say hi and be on his way.
The other thing Tom shouldn’t do, if he really wants Sheri back, is to see someone else. If he starts dating other people he will destroy any chance of reconciliation.
At some point, Sheri will initiate contact. This will signal his opportunity to start to rebuild the relationship. He should take things slow and try to be as positive and honest and up front as he can be.
If he is sincere, Tom will have a good chance at winning his ex girlfriend Sheri back. And if your situation is similar and you follow this advice, you will have a good chance too. Good luck.
