Your opening move, or the first thing you do when you are trying to get your ex back, is very important. Here is a video from an expert, T. W. Jackson (he goes by T-Dub) where he explains the all important opening move.
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4 Tips To Help Save Marriage
There are almost as many ways to save a marriage as there are marriages in need of saving. But having a good foundation to work from when trying to save your marriage can give you just the boost you need.
The following four tips will give you a good place to start. Where you take it from here may be the difference between divorce and happily ever after.
1. Don’t argue
Of course your partner says things that drive you nuts, or make you grumpy, or that you just feel compelled to correct. The simple answer is, don’t! Choose your response carefully. Learn to just let it go.
The first tip is to just stop arguing. Every time your partner says something that you want to get grumpy with or correct, just learn to let it go. By doing this you’re doing yourself and all of us a favor. When one person can learn to let things start rolling off her back, the other one will follow suit.
If your partner thinks that shirt is blue when it’s really an odd green, you may think in your head “it’s green!” but let it go. It is a simple choice between a happy, healthy relationship and being right. If you want to save the marriage, this choice is simple.
2. Start Dating Again
No, you are not going to start seeing other people. Do you remember what it was like when you were dating? You may not want to keep up that level of effort all the time, but make a point of making that effort at times.
What is comfortable and routine to one person is boring and predictable to the other. If you want to help save marriage, then make sure it isn’t as boring and predictable as it has been. Surprise your partner with a special date night (and make sure you can reschedule, just in case they can’t go).
3. Love YOur Partner As (S)he Wants
Love is not just an emotion, it is a verb. It is something you do. We all have things that make us happy. Do what your spouse wants you to do. Make him/her happy. Be the spouse (s)he wants you to be. Love your spouse as (s)he wants to be loved.
4. Give physical affection
Marriage is not all about sex, but physical affection is important to a healthy marriage. And in this context, physical affection isn’t always sex. Give your spouse a hug for no reason. Kiss your spouse good night when you go to bed.
If you neglect the physical aspect of your relationship, you neglect the entire relationship. Don’t let this very important aspect become the reason your marriage falls apart.
Work with these four tips to resurect a dying relationship and you will find that they can work wonders – as long as you follow all four.